Part of self searching involves surrounding yourself in a new environment. Believe it or not, its much harder doing it in the same environment where you’re faced with obstacles of complexities on the regular basis.
Put yourself in a new environment. Not so busy, less stressful and to some extent, either very calm or moderately active (depending on your preference). What happens here is that , you learn a lot about yourself.
In a way, the change of environment brings out your proper or true identity. How you react to the environment goes a long way to defining the sort of person you are and the kind of people you are likely to get along well with.
Its also mighty important to know that, the adjustments you make should be such that, it builds and trims you into a proper person rather than a diabolical human being.
Your self confidence to an ultimate degree depends on how you shape your life. Its out of this self confidence that you develop a steady mind and virtues of patience, love, commitment, positivity and motivation.