Its understanding to want to seek refuge in your own little shell. This world can sometimes be too much for us to handle. People and events will make you feel unappreciated, unworthy, almost unwanted in some extreme instances but once we get into that shell, we tend to feel safe and secure.
There isn’t anything bad about the situation to be honest. However, you can’t keep hiding in that shell forever. At some point you just have to face these same demons who have basically set up camps in our lives. The scariest point in our lives is stepping up to these demons, because we normally lack self confidence or self belief at the time to face them.
Truthfully you don’t have to wait to get to the point when we become almost helpless before we attempt to fight. The fight needs to be a reaction, that is, reacting to the shots that are being thrown your way. Think of it as if being at the scene of a war. You don’t need to see blood before you start fighting back. Once those shots are fired, that’s your cue to go.
At the end of the day, you have to show that endurance. That zeal, that fighting spirit, that deep down gut wrenching energy to come out and say “today, I’ll conquer those demons”. “Today I’ll step up to the plate and I’ll overcome any obstacle along my path of serenity, joy and success”, because in actual sense these demons are really nothing but obstacles right?
FIGHT! FIGHT! Fight till the word fight becomes a shadow in the light of triumph!